Early Rhodes and New Roads

In January 2026 I had the opportunity to go to Middlesex County, Virginia to do genealogy research. I’d originally planned to go during the summer, but as my cats were separated then due to redirected aggression (as I wrote about here), that wasn’t possible. As it turned out, though, this was the perfect time for the trip!

As to the backstory, one of my maternal great-great grandmothers was Sarah Jane (Sally) Rhodes.

Born in 1826 in Albemarle County, Virginia, she married my great-great grandfather, John William Anderson, in January 1846. From their marriage license and census records I knew that Sarah’s father was Robert P. Rhodes, but for 30+ years I was not able to confirm the identity of his parents.

In January 2020 (as documented here) everything opened up on this family after finding valuable information in chancery suits. From there–through wills, deeds, and the incredible resource of church records–I was able to move the Rhodes history all the way back to the mid-1600s!

My earliest known Rhodes ancestor was Hezekiah (Ezechias) Rhodes. He was born about 1662 on the island of Guernsey in the English Channel. When he came to this country, he settled in Middlesex County, Virginia. His place of birth was confirmed in a Middlesex County Court court record from 1689 (source: Wikitree):

Middlesex County Court 1st of April 1689. Ezekiah Roades humbly petitions this Court to prove himselfe a free borne Subject & produceing the evidence of Zachery Mullens for ye same, he is accordingly sworne & his deposition ordered to be recorded. The Deposition of Zachery Mullens examined & sworne saith that Ezekiah Roades was borne in ye Iseland Gernsey within ye Kings Dominion & further yor: Depont. saith that he ye sd. Ezekiah Roades & yor: Depont. we ware play boyes together & I knew him there severall yeares & further saith not. Zachery Mullelns, his marke. Sworne this first day of Aprill in Court. Test J. Vause 89 Cl Cur

While I don’t know the exact year that Hezekiah/Ezechias arrived in Middlesex County, he married Elizabeth Ann Nichols in Christ Church Parish in 1684.

I wasn’t sure what I could find, in person, that hadn’t already been shared online, but I was ready for a fact-finding adventure and the opportunity to better explore this part of Virginia. So after an almost 3-hour drive, we arrived at the courthouse in Saluda, Virginia, (the county seat of Middlesex County), and the hunt was on!

Church records showed that Hezekiah (Ezechias) Rhodes died in 1717, and I hoped to find a will at the courthouse. Instead, we found an inventory and appraisement of his estate, with his oldest son, John, as the administrator. This was in Will Book B, page 86, though the actual page number was somewhat deceiving (and frustrating) given the way the book was assembled.

While some courthouses allow documents in will and deed books to be photographed, Middlesex County requires that researchers make hard copies of their pages of interest, for a nominal fee. The pages in the books are copies of the original documents–which is understandable, given their age. Unfortunately, however, they are very difficult to read, largely due to “bleed through,” as both sides of the originals were written on. The Rhodes appraisement spans three pages, and ultimately I’ll carefully photograph each page and try to make them clear enough in Photoshop to decipher and transcribe.

It was late afternoon by the time we left the courthouse. We crossed the beautiful Rappahannock River into Lancaster County on our way to Kilmarnock where we’d be staying. The Rappahannock travels a distance of approximately 195 miles from its origin in the Blue Ridge Mountains to the Chesapeake Bay, and it separates the Northern and Middle peninsulas in the Tidewater region of the state.

Towns Visited: Kilmarnock (north), Urbanna & Saluda (west), Deltaville (east), Gwynn’s Island (southeast)

Frost had made a pretty pattern on the driver’s side window of my Jeep the next morning as we were heading out. It was a cold start to the day, but at least we had blue skies and bright sunshine!

After driving south across the Rappahannock back into Middlesex County, our first stop was at Christ Church, just east of Saluda. Most of the records I’d found for this early Rhodes ancestor came from Christ Church Parish, so I was interested in seeing the church and cemetery.

I knew there was no marked grave for Hezekiah in the cemetery, but I still assumed he was buried there, based on information on Findagrave. I was confused, then, when we looked at a directory that listed everyone who was buried in the cemetery and there were no Rhodes mentioned at all!

As we were leaving the cemetery, we were greeted by a woman who was walking out of the Parish Hall building. In the course of our conversation, we learned that Christ Church Parish encompassed the whole of Middlesex County, not just the grounds of this particular church! That meant that that Hezekiah Rhodes had likely been buried in a family cemetery somewhere in Middlesex County, but not in this church cemetery!

I also learned that there were three churches in Christ Church Parish, so the record I’d found in an online Vestry book regarding Hezekiah being paid for “mending the pulpits” didn’t necessarily mean he’d made the repairs at this particular church:

We left the church knowing less than we thought we knew (which is kind of how genealogy research works for me!) and our next stop was the Middlesex County Museum and Historical Society in Saluda.

We were fortunate to be there on a day that Holly, the museum’s director, was working, and she was eager to help us make the most of our visit. Based on some deeds we’d looked at in the courthouse regarding the sale of Hezekiah’s land after his death, she helped us figure out possible areas where the Rhodes land might have been located. Nothing was conclusive, however, because “Barbecue Creek,” which was referenced in the deeds, was nowhere to be found on a map of the county…

She suggested a couple of books that might be helpful with my research, and I ordered the parish register (the one shown on the right) before leaving the museum. This not only contains information about Hezekiah, but also lists the birth, baptism, marriage, and death dates of his wife and several of his children.

As a bit of a coincidence and “small world-ism,” we were surprised to learn that Holly had grown up in the town where I now live! (Seriously, what are the odds?) But as it was getting close to lunch time–and based on her recommendation–we drove to a restaurant called “Something Different” in the town of Urbanna. It did not disappoint; best She-Crab soup I’ve ever had!

I’d never been to Urbanna before (famous for its Oyster Festival each November), and we stopped by one of the town’s marinas on our way to the restaurant:

After lunch, with most of my genealogy research options exhausted, we shifted into tourist mode. Since it was only about 25-30 miles away, I wanted to visit the campground on Gwynn’s Island where Wayne and I had stayed in August 2020.

I probably should have checked before we made the drive, but the campground was closed for the season, and all access to it was blocked. Darn! We only got a small glimpse of the Chesapeake Bay–wow, look at that big, blue water!–but it was a pretty drive and a gorgeous day. No regrets!

After leaving Gwynn’s, we did some wandering. We found a peaceful little park on the Piankatank River….

…. and after leaving Piankatank River Landing, we did a quick drive through Deltaville and out to Stingray Point before crossing the Rappahannock, yet again, on our return to Kilmarnock.

The name “Rappahannock” comes from an Algonquian (Native American) word meaning “river of quick, rising water” or “where the tide ebbs and flows.” Likes many rivers that empty into the Chesapeake Bay, the last 50 miles or so of the Rappahannock are tidal.

Before starting for home the next day, we drove just northeast of Kilmarnock to Hughlett Point Natural Area Preserve on the Chesapeake Bay. In the interest of time we just went straight to the beach, but trails there lead to a couple of observation decks in marshlands. Maybe on a future trip?

Hundreds of Canada Geese and seagulls were in the water to our left…

…with the Bay’s big, blue water to our right….

We were only about 50 miles from Westmoreland State Park on the Potomac River, and I thought that would be our next stop after leaving Hughlett Point. As we passed through Lively, VA, however, we saw a sign for Belle Isle State Park. Neither of us had ever been there and it was much closer than Westmoreland, so off we went!

The visitor center is right on the Rappahannock River, and we enjoyed looking at the various exhibits.

The gate to the campground was closed so we weren’t able to drive through to see it, but a woman I met several years ago said it’s her favorite campground, so I’ve always been curious about it. Pictures of some of the campsites are featured here. Looks very nice!

Such a beautiful day and such a beautiful state park!

We saw several Bald Eagles at Belle Isle, but they were too far away to get good pictures. I could just see their white heads and white tail feathers…

So while I didn’t find all of the information on my Rhodes ancestor that I’d hoped to find, I actually learned quite a lot. And that sets me up for a visit to the courthouse in Orange, Virginia, to see what I can find out about Hezekiah Rhodes, Jr. who’s my 6th great grandfather!

I’m so thankful that we had the opportunity to do some genealogy research, to see new places, to visit new towns and restaurants, and to explore new roads in this beautiful and diverse state. Experiences like these are to be treasured. ❤️

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Why Cats Should be Kept Indoors (Another Reason)

Most of my friends who have cats do not let them outside. They know that this helps to keep their kitty friends safer and healthier, and it also likely increases their lifespan.

As cats are instinctive hunters, an indoor-only home for them also helps to protect birds and other small animals. The Wildlife Center of Virginia’s article, “The Case for Indoor Cats,” focuses on the threat that free-roaming felines pose to wildlife.

While I absolutely agree that domestic cats should be kept inside, for the last 8+ years I have cared for a small colony of feral cats. I am sure that these cats routinely hunt, kill, and eat a variety of other animals even though they are given fresh food and water each day.

With the help of a Trap-Neuter-Return program through the local SPCA, however, all of the kittens in this colony were young enough to be socialized and adopted in 2016, and the adults were spayed or neutered, vaccinated, and ear-tipped before being returned. As a result, no new cats or kittens have shown up for more than 5 years, and three of four original TNR cats in the colony are now at least 9 or 10 years old. While this situation is still far from ideal for a number of reasons, I feel it has made a positive difference for these cats, as well as for local wildlife. (All told, I trapped a total of 12 cats and kittens!) As I’ve said repeatedly since committing to this caregiving responsibility, you do the best you can…

Am I a cat lover? Well, yes. I’ve had cats most of my life, sometimes with “singles” and sometimes with a houseful. While there have been occasional conflicts or differences of opinion, for the most part they have got along pretty well.

In 2019 after losing the last one from the group pictured above, I wasn’t in a position to adopt until Spring 2024 when I discovered two beautiful sisters at a local SPCA. Bonded adult littermates, they were exactly what my heart and soul needed.

These girls settled in quickly, and more often than not I’d find them snuggled up together. When we moved to a smaller house in late March 2025, they adapted to this change as well. By having me–and having each other–they were “home” wherever we were. True pet parents will understand when I say that they became my family.

Everything changed, however, on the evening of Sunday, June 22, 2025. It had been a very hot and humid day so I waited until just after dark to let the cats out on the screened back porch, which was one of their favorite places. Several minutes later I heard the most horrific screaming, and when I ran to the door I could see that they were fighting! Fighting??!!!

With fur flying in all directions, Lilith, my Seal Point, was attacking her sister! I opened the door and they came inside the house where the vicious brawl continued. I had NEVER seen cats fight so intensely before, and it was terrifying. I clapped my hands and shouted at them, but they were so focused on each other that it was if they couldn’t even hear me.

They finally ran under different pieces of furniture in my bedroom, and as soon as I could safely pick up one of them (Xena, the victim), I put her in a separate room and shut the door.

Once I stopped shaking, I remembered that just before the door to the porch closed, I’d heard something jump over the chain link fence in my back yard. I knew what had happened! In a classic case of redirected or displaced aggression, a neighborhood cat had come up on the deck next to my porch. This unexpected intrusion into their space likely scared both of my girls, and as she couldn’t lash out at the stranger, Lilith focused her fear and anger on her sister.

The next day when both cats seemed to be calm and back to normal, I put them in their carriers and placed them facing each other. After several minutes when there was no hissing or growling, I cautiously let them out of the carriers. They were fine for a minute or two, but as soon as they sniffed each other, they started fighting again, just as intensely.

I waited a couple of days before trying to put them together again. This time I cautiously opened their carriers in the kitchen after I’d put their food bowls in the normal places. I gently rubbed and praised both while they were eating, and as soon as one finished, I’d slowly pick her up and separate them again. This worked well for three or four feedings, and I was hopeful that the positive experience of successfully eating near each other would allow them to start the process of reconciling. Unfortunately that wasn’t the case.

One evening, after both had eaten just a couple of feet away from each other, Xena turned towards her sister and growled. Hoping to intervene before things escalated, I scooped up Lilith to take her to my bedroom. Xena, however, was already on the offensive, and she jumped onto my leg in an attempt to get to her sister! This caused Lilith to panic and jump down. Once they were both on the floor, another furious fight erupted. While I have found no major injuries on either cat after these fights (I’m monitoring a spot on Xena’s tail), this time I received multiple deep scratches on my hand, arm, and leg from both of them. For everyone’s safety, I’ve kept them completely apart since this incident.

In an attempt to lower the stress level in the house, the day after the first attack I purchased a Feliway diffuser, Feliway spray, and “calming treats.” I tried the “vanilla trick” of dabbing a small amount of vanilla extract on each one so they would smell the same, and I rubbed both with the same cloth to transfer their scents. Every couple of hours I swap which room they’re in (my bedroom or my computer room), and I spend time with each one individually. They also have time each day to run and play in the open rooms of the house, and I alternate which one sleeps in my room at night.

Additionally, I’ve taken steps to reduce the likelihood of them seeing the neighborhood cat again (which I saw on my deck a day or two after the first fight). Aside from not letting either on the screened porch, I put frosted privacy film on most of my windows. Sadly, this also means that my cats no longer have the opportunity to see birds, bunnies, or anything else in the outside world….

So in case it’s not abundantly clear yet, another reason to keep cats inside is to avoid causing a serious problem like the one I am dealing with! By coming over my fence, into my yard, and onto my deck, this neighborhood cat damaged the life-long relationship that my cats have had with each other. Its trespassing also created unexpected expenses for me due to my purchasing the pheromone diffuser, spray, treats, privacy film, and Rescue Remedy. And if the vet feels that medication may be necessary for one or both of my cats, or if they refer me to a behavioral consultant, this will become even more costly.

Of course the worst and most heartbreaking part of all this is that my beautiful and affectionate cats still feel such animosity towards each other. I sincerely hope that, in time, they will be able to live together peacefully again, but don’t think there are any guarantees.

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Sometimes I Just Need to Drive…

There have been a lot of changes in the last few months–like, seriously, a lot of changes–and I’m still trying to make sense of a world that doesn’t include Wayne. There are so very many things I miss from our years together, including how we would often do long, rambling drives on pretty weekends. As I’ve said before, I truly believe that adventures are best when shared, but since that’s no longer option, out of necessity I’m becoming more comfortable doing things by myself.

Despite having tentative plans for Sunday, April 27th, I was also having very compelling “John Muir moments”:

I’d recently renewed my annual national park pass, so I entered the Shenandoah National Park at the southern entrance of the Skyline Drive. Despite the brilliant sunshine, the temperature was just in the mid-40s and there was a strong breeze blowing. I wasn’t dressed warmly enough for any walks/hikes, but it was a wonderful day to go for a drive on the mountain.

Looking West – the beautiful, wide Shenandoah Valley
Looking West – Waynesboro, Virginia

The Skyline Drive winds along the crest of the mountain, so overlooks can offer views to the west or to the east.

Looking East – Interstate 64 as seen from the Beagle Gap Overlook on the Skyline Drive
Looking East – The development in the lower part of the picture is “Old Trail” near Crozet, Virginia
Looking West – Super zoomed in (WOW!!) on Waynesboro, Virginia from the Skyline Drive
Looking East – Sugar Hollow Dam and Reservoir from the Moormans River Overlook
200,000 acres in the Shenandoah National Park, and deer choose to graze here…
The parking area was full–lots of people were on the mountain this pretty Sunday morning.

I have many good, powerful–and bittersweet–memories of our hikes to Blackrock Summit over the years…

Looking West – View of the distinctive Massanutten Mountain from the Dundo Overlook
Looking East – Everything is greening up – Doyles River Overlook

My kind of road; driving north @ 35 mph in the Shenandoah National Park…

After 40-ish miles on the Skyline Drive, I opted to take Rt. 33 West. This afforded other interesting views of Massanutten Mountain.

While it’s not that far away (when taking a direct route), I think the only time I was at the resort was once when I was in college.

After arriving in Harrisonburg on Rt. 33 West and circling around Court Square, I got on Rt. 11 South. This took me past the hotel where Wayne and I stayed for the Virginia Art Education Association convention in 2019. That was SO much fun!

I continued to free-associate my way through the Shenandoah Valley, and impulsively decided to make a quick side trip. The farm where I was able to board my horse the first part of my freshman year at Bridgewater College is now home to a Church of the Brethren. The college is historically affiliated with this religion.

Yeah, definitely some memories were made during 4 years in this dorm….

During my senior year, my roommate and I shared the first floor room to the right of this door.

Back on Rt. 11, I drove through Mt. Crawford, Mt. Sidney, and Verona–and a whole lot of beautiful farmland–before turning southeast towards home.

While I will always feel the loss of my best friend and partner–and yes, there were some tears today as well as smiles–overall it was a good day.

Until next time,
Sharon

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1st Day Hike – January 1, 2025 – James River State Park

Wayne and I began going to Virginia’s state parks each New Year’s Day two years after the “1st Day Hike” program was started. While we never participated in the ranger-guided hikes that were offered at each park on January 1st, we always enjoyed visiting and exploring on our own.

In 2014 we went to Douthat State Park:

In 2015 we went to Smith Mountain Lake State Park (and it was really cold & windy!):

In 2016 we went to James River State Park:

In 2017 we went to High Bridge State Park:

(This was our first trip there, and it’s called “High Bridge” for a very good reason!)

On January 1, 2018, the temperature was in the teens, and the windchill was making it much colder. We knew we wouldn’t want to spend a lot of time outside, so instead of going to a state park, we went for a drive along the Blue Ridge Parkway. We got out of the car a couple of times, but since it was 14 degrees we didn’t stay out long!

We went back to James River State Park in 2019, and that was the first time we got a “First Day Hike” sticker.

While we did lots of day trips and camping trips to our beautiful state parks in every season over many years, our last official “First Day Hike” together was on January 1, 2020 when we visited Douthat State Park again:

This year I really felt not just the desire, but the need to restart the tradition of going to a park on New Year’s Day. Since adventures are usually best shared, I reached out to several different female friends to see if anyone would want to go with me, but everyone already had plans. Alrighty….

I decided to go to James River State Park because it’s the closest (at about 60 miles), plus I wanted to get a new jacket in the visitor center gift shop. It’s also the park that Wayne and I went to most often on day trips, plus we camped there.

I left home around 9:30 am, and when I started the drive down Rt. 29 South, I was the only car on the road for the longest time. That’s not something you see very often.

Just south of Lovingston and Colleen, I turned left onto Tye River Road. This pretty route crosses the Tye River and then runs beside it for a while.

After turning east onto Rt. 60 several miles later, I was surprised by how happy I was to finally see the James River again! The James is Virginia’s largest river. Formed from the confluence of the Jackson and Cowpasture Rivers in the western part of the state, it ultimately flows into the Chesapeake Bay at Hampton Roads. We’ve visited this historically-significant river in so many different places in the state over the years, and I’ve loved all of its manifestations and moods.

Once in the park, I went to the canoe launch area first, just for a few up close and personal minutes. Hello, you big ol’ beautiful river….

I then drove through the section where there are a number of cabins, and I was delighted to see that several of them were occupied. Some of the larger cabins (or lodges) seemed to have multiple families staying together in them–what fun! I also wanted to re-visit the campground, but unfortunately the gates were shut since it’s closed for the winter.

Next stop was the visitor center. I always enjoy looking at the exhibits–and I did buy a new jacket (it’s the green one).

And every single time I’m at this park, I photograph this sign because I agree with the sentiment:

There were going to be two different guided hikes leaving from the visitor center at noon, and this wasn’t something I planned to do. Like seriously, not what my significantly out-of-shape self was there for! But when one of the rangers said that the “Wetlands Hike” was primarily flat, I decided to try it, even though I was certainly the oldest person in that particular group. (Now I guess it’s possible that in dog years a 13 year-old long-haired dachshund named Ruby who was in my group was “older” than I am–but her “parents” said she’s been to 16 state parks so far and she doesn’t seem to get tired unless the hike is longer than 3 miles… Alrighty…)

In all the times that we visited the park, this is a trail that Wayne and I never explored. The first part was down hill from the visitor center (so I figured the last part would be up the same hill…) but it did level off near a pond where there were cattails and a beaver lodge:

There were several horses and riders in the park (yes, that’s a most excellent way to “hike,” I’d say) and our group stood quietly to the side of the trail to let them pass.

After leaving the pond, the next part of the trail was along the river.

Our guide stopped frequently to share information about various plants or animals, but oddly, this time I didn’t see hawks, ducks, geese, herons, or any wildlife other than some tiny birds and a few vultures.

After a long stretch along the river, the trail curved to the left and we found ourselves at the far end of the pond. I didn’t take any pictures, but there were several trees there that had been taken down by beavers, leaving triangular stumps. (Fun fact: Beavers are the largest rodent in North America, and the second largest in the world. The largest is the capybara.)

After a minor uphill trek (pant, pant), we completed the loop around the pond. I paused to take a picture of my totally wind-blown, hat-haired, not-dying-yet self.

I then asked Ruby’s “dad” to take a picture of me, which he did. All my layers (shirt, sweater, scarf, coat) felt quite good in the shady sections of the trail, especially when the wind was blowing (it was in the mid-40s when we started), but it was much too warm in the sun. By that time, though, I figured it was easier to wear it than carry it.

The climb back up the hill towards the visitor center wasn’t much fun–especially since it was at the end of the hike. Carrying a camera, however, always provides a valid excuse to stop to take a picture or two (while catching one’s breath). This Wetlands hike took just under an hour and a half, factoring in the brief stops along the way.

When I got back to my car, there were a couple of things I wanted to do before I left the park. First stop was Dixon Landing. I couldn’t get exactly where I wanted to be given that there were people around, but I was close enough–and discreet… IYKYK.

I then went back to the canoe launch area (with my Altoids tin in hand), still focused on honoring special places and memories from other times Wayne and I were there over the years…

Thank you, James River State Park, for another enjoyable visit–and for a real “First Day Hike”!

Heading home and driving northwest, Tye River Road offers some stunning mountain views each time you pop over a hill…

Once on Rt. 29 North, I made a quick stop at the SPCA where I’d adopted Lilith and Xena last May.

In addition to donating several blankets for them to use in the cat cages, I (of course) told the employees and volunteers that I had adopted the best girl kitties in the whole world. (And yes, of course, I showed them several pictures.)

I made one more brief side trip before heading home:

So while I still feel that adventures are best shared, I’m realizing that in order to do the things that I enjoy doing–such as being out in nature, traveling, camping, etc.–sometimes (or perhaps most of the time…) it will mean going solo. And you know what? That’s okay.

~ Sharon

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Camping at Westmoreland State Park – August 2024

After doing a multi-state road trip by myself in July, I planned my second solo camping trip of the summer for August. While there are many beautiful campgrounds in Virginia, I opted for Westmoreland State Park because I also wanted to do some genealogy research.

Somewhere over the years I’d heard that a 5th-great grandfather on my mother’s side was born in Westmoreland County in the mid-1700s. When I learned that the county courthouse in Montross had records dating back to the mid 1600s (which is very unusual!) I hoped I would find documents to confirm this.

The weather was delightfully pleasant on the morning of August 20th, and it took me just under 3 hours to get to the campground. Wayne and I did several day trips to Westmoreland State Park, but we never had the opportunity to camp there.

I’d reserved a pull-though site in campground A near the camp host’s site. Since so much of what I do now is still way, way out of my comfort zone, I liked the idea of being close to a campground volunteer who would likely be a good resource if I had any problems.

There are 3 different campgrounds at Westmoreland: Campground “A” offers a lot of shade, but sites are fairly close together; “B” is recently renovated, with less shade but better able to accommodate large RVs; and “C” is for tent camping only.

As I was getting everything set up, the hosts from A and B stopped by to welcome me. By camping midweek–especially after many schools were back in session–there were very, very few campers and lots of empty sites. (Weekends are a different story!)

Much of the appeal of this particular state park is its location on the Potomac River. The river isn’t visible from any of the campgrounds, but it’s a short drive–or long-ish walk–to some amazing views.

On previous day trips, Wayne and I made the half-mile trek down to “Fossil Beach.” Aptly named, as many shark teeth and other fossils get washed up by the Potomac, the trail starts near the visitor’s center and winds down to the river. Once there, the scenery is just stunning; these pictures are from our day trip in 2017:

Looking west (upstream) from Fossil Beach at Westmoreland State Park
Looking east (downstream) from Fossil Beach at Westmoreland State Park

While I didn’t plan to go to Fossil Beach this time, there was also beauty at another beach and picnic area in the park:

Sometimes it’s hard to believe–with the waves and the width–that this is “just” a river! These pictures and video were taken at the main beach and picnic area.

The next morning, August 21st, I went back down to this beach, and it was another gloriously beautiful day! (Temperatures topped out in the mid 70s during my stay!)

On each of our day trips to Westmoreland, Wayne and I saw several Bald Eagles. While I did see a couple of them this morning, I wasn’t able to get good pictures because they were too far away.

Ready for the next part of this trip, I drove to the small town of Montross where the courthouse for Westmoreland County is located. My first stop was at the Westmoreland County Museum in the old courthouse building.

With the help of a young woman at the museum, we went through various books and documents–and found absolutely nothing. My next stop was the new courthouse, but once again there were no records–no wills, deeds, marriage licenses, or anything else–to indicate that my ancestor or his family ever lived in Westmoreland County. Alrighty…

I’ve also seen some research that says this family might have lived in Dorchester County, Maryland, so maybe I’ll go there on a future trip! Before that, though, I hope to go to a courthouse in a small town in central Pennsylvania to look for records for some of my paternal ancestors. (Yes, genealogy can be addictive!)

After leaving the courthouse in Montross, I decided to check out George Washington’s Birthplace–a national park–that I’d passed on my way to the campground. Despite our other trips to Westmoreland, Wayne and I had never gone there.

Interesting place, and lovely location at the confluence of Popes Creek and the Potomac River.

After a quick look in the visitor center, I decided to walk on the “Memorial Interpretive Trail” near the water.

The first wildlife I spotted was a skink–and all I managed to photograph before it disappeared was the last bit of its blue tail.

Further up the path, I startled a Great Blue Heron that squawked and flew out of a tree to my right. I was startled, too, but I did NOT squawk–ha. Sometimes I think that Great Blue Herons are my “totem” or “spirit” animals given the number of unusual and significant “coincidences” that I’ve had involving them. Long stories there…

Along the pathway were several signs that talked about the history of the area or about (in this case) the significance of one’s birthplace.

The house on the property was built in the 1930s during the Colonial Revival movement. As such, it is a very romanticized “memorial” house that is likely far, far grander than the dwelling the Washington family would have lived in during the 1700s. This picture is the back view of the house as I continued my walk along the trail.

A longer hiking trail could be accessed on the other side of this bridge. While I wasn’t interested in that (and I was dressed more for going through courthouse records than for an extended walk through the woods), I did go out on the bridge.

Almost immediately I heard some screeching, and an Osprey landed on a tree on the far side of the bridge. My camera has a pretty good zoom lens, but it was still too far away to get sharp pictures or videos.

I’m not sure if there were other farm animals on the property, but I did see this cow with twisty horns posing in front of the monument.

I went back in the visitor center to look at some of the displays again and to see what items they had for sale, and I was surprised to see a pair of Great Blue Heron earrings.

Despite my encounter with the squawking Great Blue earlier, I wasn’t going to buy them–until I saw this on the back:

Remember what I said about Great Blue Herons and “coincidences”? And remember what I said about how I want to go to a small town in PA to do genealogy research on one of my paternal ancestors? Bellefonte is that small town! This was the only pair of GBH earrings in the display, so yes, I bought them.

This made me think about an earlier “coincidence” at the courthouse in Montross when one of the other researchers in the records room mentioned something about the Nelson County courthouse. As we talked, he said he used to live in the town where I live. Curious.

And right then, a couple that I’d seen at Westmoreland’s visitor center earlier that morning walked into this visitor center! I’d first noticed them when they drove into the campground the previous evening. We both commented that it was funny to run into each other again, in a different location and several hours after seeing each other earlier in the day. The woman said they’d already checked out of the campground and were heading to Maryland to do (you guessed it) genealogy research. I asked which surnames they were researching (because you just never know…), but there was no connection.

As I walked out of the visitor center, ready to head back to the campground, there were several park rangers standing together, looking across the parking lot at a crowd that was gathering. I asked what was going on, and one said there was going to be a Bald Eagle release. What?!

I hustled across the parking lot, and sure enough there was a display set up for the Wildlife Center of Virginia. While Ed Clark, the president and founder of the Wildlife Center used to do the releases of birds of prey, his successor, Meg Gammage-Tucker, was doing the honors this day.

One of the women who was positioned along the fence with a camera told me I’d gotten there just in time. And indeed I had…

I WISH I’d set my camera to VIDEO instead of trying to get still pictures of a moving bird!

Bald Eagles don’t get their classic white head and white tail markings until they’re several years old, and this young bird apparently hatched near Colonial Beach early this spring. More about her care, the release, and more pictures from the Wildlife Center can be found here.

I was delighted to have been able to witness this event, especially since the Center (where over the years I’ve personally taken a young injured Redtail Hawk, a Barred Owl, a Black Rat Snake, and–most recently–a young Blue Jay) is just about 15 miles from my house.

Back at my campsite, I read and crocheted for a while, then fixed a very simple dinner. (I don’t guess there was any true/traditional “camping” this trip, given a working fridge, freezer, and microwave… Hey, no apologies!) While I haven’t been able to use it as much as I would have hoped this summer, I do love this little Coachmen Clipper travel trailer…

I went back to the river later that evening to have an hour or so before dusk, as this is when the beach and picnic area close. The cliffs were lit up by the soon-to-be setting sun, and there were several types of gulls circling around, looking for their dinner.

I picked up a couple of could-be fossils, wondering how many sharks would have been in these waters 50+ million years ago for their teeth to be found so frequently on the beaches of the Potomac River….

While many people go to Fossil Beach with colanders to sift through the shells, sand, and rocks, Wayne and I never did that. However, he was all about hearts, especially when he could draw them in sand….

And so that was my mission on my last evening at Westmoreland State Park… A heart with our initials–drawn in the sand–and with some of Wayne’s ashes sprinkled inside.

I intentionally drew this close to the water. The Potomac is a tidal river, and I knew the tide would be coming in before too long.

When I returned to my campsite, the camp host invited me to come sit a while by his campfire, and I enjoyed talking with him about his travels and adventures. He also hosts each year at Grayson Highlands State Park before returning to his homebase in Florida for the winter months. It was a nice way to end the evening.

I don’t know that I was necessarily ready to go home–maybe I would have enjoyed going to a couple more campgrounds in the eastern part of the state–but I was really starting to miss my cats. Before packing up the next morning, however, I drove down to the beach again. Another incredibly beautiful day was underway, with the moon and the sun both visible in the bright blue sky.

I walked eastward to where I’d drawn the heart in the sand, and–of course–it had been washed away overnight.

It’s so strange to think that fossilized pieces and parts of sea creatures from the Paleocene-Miocene Epochs–literally millions and millions and millions of years ago!–still wash ashore on the beaches of the Potomac River. And by contrast, we humans–with all of our love and passion and intelligence–can be gone in the blink of an eye, sometimes leaving behind only intangible echoes in the minds and hearts of those who knew and loved us.

Is it a matter of permanence vs impermanence? No, not really because the ancient sharks that swam in these waters aren’t still living sharks; they’ve been fundamentally and repeatedly changed and changed again over countless centuries. For better or worse, wanted or not, change/impermanence is inevitable.

I’m still finding my way through this strange landscape, often pushing myself to do things I’m not truly comfortable doing. I don’t know yet if my memories will serve as stepping stones or stumbling blocks….

For now, though, I will continue to make the effort to move through–which I’m finding is quite different from moving on–and perhaps that–for now–is enough.

~ Sharon

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